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Veterans Administration :
http://www.cem.va.gov
Burial Benefits Available from the National Cemetery Administration
Requests for burial in a Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) national cemetery cannot be made via the Internet.
The VA does not make funeral arrangements or perform cremations. Families should make these arrangements with a funeral provider or cremation office. Any item or service obtained from a funeral home or cremation office will be at the families expense.
If possible, the following information concerning the deceased should be provided when the cemetery is first contacted:
Viewing facilities are not available and funeral services cannot be held at VA national cemeteries, but a final committal service may be performed. For safety reasons, these committal services are held in committal shelters located away from the gravesite. Burial will take place following the committal service.
Floral arrangements may accompany the casket or urn from the committal shelter and will be placed on the grave after burial.
A headstone or marker will be ordered by cemetery personnel upon inscription approval by the next of kin and a burial flag will be provided. Upright headstones are standard in most national cemeteries, however, some have both upright headstone and flat marker sections. Be sure to discuss these options with the cemetery director prior to burial.
The same procedures are followed if the veteran's eligible spouse or dependent predeceases the Veteran. In most cases, one gravesite is provided for the burial of all eligible family members and a single headstone or marker is provided. When both spouses are Veterans, two gravesites and two headstones or markers may be provided if requested.
The Department of Defense (DOD) is responsible for providing Military Funeral Honors. The DOD program, "Honoring Those Who Served," calls for funeral directors to request military funeral honors on behalf of the Veterans' families. Veterans' organizations may assist in the provision of military funeral honors. In support of this program, VA national cemetery staff may assist to coordinate military funeral honors.
Preparing in Advance
Burial Benefits Available from the National Cemetery Administration
Requests for burial in a Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) national cemetery cannot be made via the Internet.
The VA does not make funeral arrangements or perform cremations. Families should make these arrangements with a funeral provider or cremation office. Any item or service obtained from a funeral home or cremation office will be at the families expense.
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For Burial in a National Cemetery
Burial benefits available include a gravesite in any of our 131 national cemeteries with available space, opening and closing of the grave, perpetual care, a Government headstone or marker, a burial flag, and a Presidential Memorial Certificate, at no cost to the family. Some Veterans may also be eligible for Burial Allowances. Cremated remains are buried or inurned in national cemeteries in the same manner and with the same honors as casketed remains.
Burial benefits available for spouses and dependents buried in a national cemetery include burial with the Veteran, perpetual care, and the spouse or dependents name and date of birth and death will be inscribed on the Veteran’s headstone, at no cost to the family. Eligible spouses and dependents may be buried, even if they predecease the Veteran. -
For Burial in a Private Cemetery
Burial benefits available for Veterans buried in a private cemetery include a Government headstone or marker, a burial flag, and a Presidential Memorial Certificate, at no cost to the family. Some Veterans may also be eligible for Burial Allowances. There are not any benefits available to spouses and dependents buried in a private cemetery.
If possible, the following information concerning the deceased should be provided when the cemetery is first contacted:
- Full name and military rank;
- Branch of service;
- Social security number;
- Service number;
- VA claim number, if applicable;
- Date and place of birth;
- Date and place of death;
- Date of retirement or last separation from active duty; and,
- Copy of any military separation document, such as the Department of Defense Form 214 (DD-214).
Viewing facilities are not available and funeral services cannot be held at VA national cemeteries, but a final committal service may be performed. For safety reasons, these committal services are held in committal shelters located away from the gravesite. Burial will take place following the committal service.
Floral arrangements may accompany the casket or urn from the committal shelter and will be placed on the grave after burial.
A headstone or marker will be ordered by cemetery personnel upon inscription approval by the next of kin and a burial flag will be provided. Upright headstones are standard in most national cemeteries, however, some have both upright headstone and flat marker sections. Be sure to discuss these options with the cemetery director prior to burial.
The same procedures are followed if the veteran's eligible spouse or dependent predeceases the Veteran. In most cases, one gravesite is provided for the burial of all eligible family members and a single headstone or marker is provided. When both spouses are Veterans, two gravesites and two headstones or markers may be provided if requested.
The Department of Defense (DOD) is responsible for providing Military Funeral Honors. The DOD program, "Honoring Those Who Served," calls for funeral directors to request military funeral honors on behalf of the Veterans' families. Veterans' organizations may assist in the provision of military funeral honors. In support of this program, VA national cemetery staff may assist to coordinate military funeral honors.
Preparing in Advance
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For Burial in a VA National Cemetery
Gravesites in Department of Veterans Affairs (VA) national cemeteries cannot be reserved in advance; however, reservations made prior to 1962 will be honored. Families are encouraged to prepare in advance by discussing cemetery options, collecting the Veteran’s military information including discharge papers, and by contacting the cemetery where burial is desired. -
For Burial in a Private Cemetery
We suggest that if burial will be in a private cemetery and a Government headstone or marker will be requested for the Veteran’s grave, that the family complete VA Form 40-1330, Application for Standard Government Headstone or Marker for Installation in a Private or State Veterans’ Cemetery, in advance and place it with the Veterans military discharge papers for use at the time of need.
Social Security Administration :
http://www.ssa.gov/pubs/10008.html
Social Security should be notified as soon as possible when a person dies. In most cases, the funeral director will report the person's death to Social Security. You will need to furnish the funeral director with the deceased's Social Security number so he or she can make the report.
Some of the deceased's family members may be able to receive Social Security benefits if the deceased person worked long enough under Social Security to qualify for benefits. You should get in touch with Social Security as soon as you can to make sure the family receives all of the benefits to which it may be entitled. Please read the following information carefully to learn what benefits may be available.
However, eligible family members may be able to receive death benefits for the month in which the beneficiary died.
Contacting Social Security :
Our website is a valuable resource for information about all of Social Security's programs. There are a number of things you can do online.
In addition to using our website, you can call us toll-free at 1-800-772-1213. We can answer specific questions from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., Monday through Friday. We can provide information by automated phone service 24 hours a day. (You can use our automated response system to tell us a new address or request a replacement Medicare card.) If you are deaf or hard of hearing, you may call our TTY number, 1-800-325-0778.
We treat all calls confidentially. We also want to make sure you receive accurate and courteous service. That is why we have a second Social Security representative monitor some telephone calls.
Social Security should be notified as soon as possible when a person dies. In most cases, the funeral director will report the person's death to Social Security. You will need to furnish the funeral director with the deceased's Social Security number so he or she can make the report.
Some of the deceased's family members may be able to receive Social Security benefits if the deceased person worked long enough under Social Security to qualify for benefits. You should get in touch with Social Security as soon as you can to make sure the family receives all of the benefits to which it may be entitled. Please read the following information carefully to learn what benefits may be available.
- A one-time payment of $255 can be paid to the surviving spouse if he or she was living with the deceased; or, if living apart, was receiving certain Social Security benefits on the deceased's record.. If there is no surviving spouse, the payment is made to a child who is eligible for benefits on the deceased's record in the month of death.
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Certain family members may be eligible to receive monthly benefits, including:
- A widow or widower age 60 or older (age 50 or older if disabled)
- A surviving spouse at any age who is caring for the deceased's child under age 16 or disabled
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An unmarried child of the deceased who is:
- Younger than age 18 (or age 18 or 19 if he or she is a full-time student in an elementary or secondary school); or
- Age 18 or older with a disability that began before age 22;
- Parents, age 62 or older, who were dependent on the deceased for at least half of their support; and
- A surviving divorced spouse, under certain circumstances.
However, eligible family members may be able to receive death benefits for the month in which the beneficiary died.
Contacting Social Security :
Our website is a valuable resource for information about all of Social Security's programs. There are a number of things you can do online.
In addition to using our website, you can call us toll-free at 1-800-772-1213. We can answer specific questions from 7 a.m. to 7 p.m., Monday through Friday. We can provide information by automated phone service 24 hours a day. (You can use our automated response system to tell us a new address or request a replacement Medicare card.) If you are deaf or hard of hearing, you may call our TTY number, 1-800-325-0778.
We treat all calls confidentially. We also want to make sure you receive accurate and courteous service. That is why we have a second Social Security representative monitor some telephone calls.
Vital Statistics Information :
http://www.doh.state.fl.us/planning_eval/vital_statistics/deaths.htm
In Florida, anyone may order a Florida Death Certificate "Without cause of death".
A Florida Death Certificate "With Cause of Death" is confidential by Florida Law and may only be issued as follows:
In Florida, anyone may order a Florida Death Certificate "Without cause of death".
A Florida Death Certificate "With Cause of Death" is confidential by Florida Law and may only be issued as follows:
- To the decedent's spouse, parent, child, grandchild, or sibling (if 18 years of age or older).
- To any person who provides a "Will" that has been executed pursuant to state statute 732.502; an insurance policy or other document that demonstrates his or her interest in the estate of the decedent;
- Or to any person who provides documentation that he or she is acting on behalf of any of the previously mentioned persons.
- Fifty (50) years following the date of death, "Cause of death" becomes public information and anyone may obtain a Death Certificate with this information. Any time period prior to the fifty years, "cause of death" is considered confidential by Florida law.
- Requesting cause of death information
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| American Association of Suicidology 4201 Connecticut Ave., NW Suite 310 Washington, DC 20049 |
National AIDS Fund 1400 "I" St., NW, Suite 1220 Washington, DC 20005-2208 (202) 408-4848 |
| American Cancer Society 1599 Clifton Road, NE Atlanta, GA 30329 (800) ACS-2345 |
National Catholic Ministry To the Bereaved 606 Middle Ave. Elyria, OH 44035 (216) 323-6262 |
| American Foundation for AIDS Research 733 3rd Ave., 12th Floor New York, NY 10017 (212) 682-7440 ext. 210 |
National Donor Family Council C/o National Kidney Foundation 30 East 33rd St. New York, NY 10016 (800) 622-9010 (212) 889-2210 (For Families of those who died and became Organ and/or tissue donors.) |
| American Heart Association 7320 Greenville Ave. Dallas, TX 75231 (800) 527-6941 |
National Hospice Organization 1901 N. Moore St., Suite 901 Arlington, VA 22209 (703) 243-5900 (800) 658-8898 |
| American Hospice Foundation 1130 Connecticut, NW, Suite 700 Washington, DC 20036 (202) 223-0204 Email:ahf@msn.com |
Parents of Murdered Children Inc. (POMC) 100 E. Eighth St., B41Cincinnati, OH 45202 (513) 721-5683 (888) 818-POMC |
| American Kidney Fund 6110 Executive Blvd., Suite 1010 Rockville, MD 20852 (800) 638-8299 |
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| American Lung Association 1740 Broadway New York, NY 10019 (800) LUNG-USA |
Ray of Hope PO Box 2323 Iowa City, IA 52244 (319) 337-9890 (For survivors of those who died from suicide.) |
| American SIDS Institute 2480 Windy Hill Rd. Suite 380 Marietta, GA 30067 (800) 232-SIDS |
Salvation Army National Headquarters 615 Slaters Ln. PO Box 269 Alexandria, VA 22313 (703) 684-5500 |
| Association for Death Education and Counseling 342 Main St. West Hartford, CT 06117-2507 (860) 586-7503 |
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SIDS Alliance 1314 Bedford Ave., Suite 210 Baltimore, MD 21208 (800) 221-7437 (410) 653-8226 |
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Society of Military Widows 5535 Hempstead Way Springfield, VA 22151 (703) 750-1342 |
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TBI/Tissue Banks International 815 Parks Ave. Baltimore, MD 21201 (800) 756-4824 |
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| International THEOS Foundation 322 Blvd. of the Allies Suite 105 Pittsburgh, PA 15222-3510 (412) 471-7770 (international widows and widowers group) |
Leukemia Society of America 2900 Eisenhower Ave., Suite 419 Alexandria, VA 22314 (703) 960-1100 |
| The Living Bank Organ and Tissue Donation Box 6725 Houston, TX 77265 (800) 528-2971 |
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